Somehow, my post went back to a draft - I've never had that happen - very strange. Well here it is, back in it's original form:
After five days of being unable to eat anything at all, not even the Boost that has been a staple diet item for some time, I went to my family doctor for help. At that point I was hoping for a temporary solution to hold me over until I could visit my Gastrointerologist, the specialist in Little Rock, that has been treating me for several years.
Before I went, I was imagining all kinds of scenarios, the worst which was that I'd have to resort to a feeding tube.
Well, I began to explain to my family doctor the progression that I had been experiencing. At first, I'd started experiencing extreme abdominal pain with foods that I'd been able to tolerate for several years. First it was one food, and then it was two foods and it progressed to include the Boost. After five days of eating nothing, and just drinking clear liquids, I found myself at my doctors.
After listening to my detailed story he said, "I'm gong to tell you the same thing that Paul told Timothy. You need to drink"
At that moment, I interruped him with, "do you mean drink MORE water?"
He said, "No, wine. If you will drink 4 oz. of wine daily it will have a healing effect on your colon".
He went on to tell me some of the other healing effects of daily wine and that there was no need to make up the 4 oz. in the event I missed my daily dose. He also said that after a while, I would like be able to re-introduce a variety of fruits and vegetables into my diet. WOW!!
As you might guess, I was NOT expecting to hear this.
I did take his advice, however, and I can confirm that it has made a HUGE difference. I am again able to eat the foods I had recently had to cut out of my diet as well eating as some new ones.
I am not ready to attempt any fruits and vegetables due to the extreme pain they have caused in the past but I do intend to try them this summer when I am no longer working.
I have to say, I am really excited about the possibility of being able to eat normally!!!
Thanks Dr. Dan for your advice!!!
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Friday, May 13, 2011
Where did my blog post go?
This is the first time I have ever had a blog post disappear.
It was here yesterday and even had a comment and today it is GONE!
Very strange. I will have to post it again.
It was here yesterday and even had a comment and today it is GONE!
Very strange. I will have to post it again.
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Birmingham Visit
My newest grandchild, Lydia Katherine Wagner, was born on April 8th.
SHE IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!
On our recent visit, I was blessed to see how much her brothers love her. I had expected to make an attempt to focus on them first and later on Lydia but they couldn't wait to show her off. Ethan loves to shower her with kisses and Caleb gazes at her lovingly and caresses her hand or cheek. Both boys seem to have grown up so much since the last time we visited. Maybe that's part of being a big brother.
All babies are "good", but she is a really good baby. I hardly ever heard her cry. Whether we were at home, eating out, swimming, or somewhere else, she was content. She loves being held and I loved holdng her. :)
SHE IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!
On our recent visit, I was blessed to see how much her brothers love her. I had expected to make an attempt to focus on them first and later on Lydia but they couldn't wait to show her off. Ethan loves to shower her with kisses and Caleb gazes at her lovingly and caresses her hand or cheek. Both boys seem to have grown up so much since the last time we visited. Maybe that's part of being a big brother.
All babies are "good", but she is a really good baby. I hardly ever heard her cry. Whether we were at home, eating out, swimming, or somewhere else, she was content. She loves being held and I loved holdng her. :)
Thursday, May 05, 2011
The Bible House burns to the ground
Dan texted me at work today to tell me that the Bible House had burned to the ground. When I first read it, I was so busy I could hardly comprehend it. As the day wore on, the words echoed and I thought back over years of the many times I had visited and taken my children to purchase books there. It's been a fixture in Searcy and I wonder if they will rebuild.
I understand that the fire start at about 9:30 AM and it kept smoldering and reigniting. At 1 PM the fire was still smoldering. At one point there were more than 40 fireman at the scene. Two engine trucks, a tower tower truck, and even most of the city's off duty fire personnel responded to the blaze. The Bible house has been at that location since 1980.
When I came into town at about 3:30, the tower truck was still pouring water onto the building. The right wing of the building was the children's wing and is a total loss. It was taken down with the help of a backhoe about 11 AM.
The cause of the fire is currently unknown.
I understand that the fire start at about 9:30 AM and it kept smoldering and reigniting. At 1 PM the fire was still smoldering. At one point there were more than 40 fireman at the scene. Two engine trucks, a tower tower truck, and even most of the city's off duty fire personnel responded to the blaze. The Bible house has been at that location since 1980.
When I came into town at about 3:30, the tower truck was still pouring water onto the building. The right wing of the building was the children's wing and is a total loss. It was taken down with the help of a backhoe about 11 AM.
The cause of the fire is currently unknown.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Storm Damage
We are sitting here watching the doppler radar again this evening. Severe storms are heading our way and while we may lose power, I'm not really worried about the storm hitting us although last night's storms hit Beebe, McRae and Vilonia. All three are communities where my "teacher friends" reside. School was canceled today and will be again tomorrow.
The Beebe community has many trees down and a variety of damage that I am not yet aware of. What I have been told is that our main campus lost the roof over the computer lab, the roof over the new Pre-K building, and some damage over another building. There is no power for much of the community or at the school.
This is a photo of a car belonging to one of our teachers. The tree was on the other side of the car and it pierced her gas tank. She and her family are safe, thank God. The tree came from the other side of the car.
The McRae community also has many trees down but fortunately has no damage at our building. There is no power for much of the community or for the school.
No one was injured when this house was hit in McRae.
Vilonia lost 16 homes and many other structures.
As I started out, storms are headed our way. It looks like they may go south of us. I have my pillows and quilt ready for the bathtub in case they don't. Now all I have to do is successfully talk Dan into joining me. :)
The Beebe community has many trees down and a variety of damage that I am not yet aware of. What I have been told is that our main campus lost the roof over the computer lab, the roof over the new Pre-K building, and some damage over another building. There is no power for much of the community or at the school.
This is a photo of a car belonging to one of our teachers. The tree was on the other side of the car and it pierced her gas tank. She and her family are safe, thank God. The tree came from the other side of the car.
The McRae community also has many trees down but fortunately has no damage at our building. There is no power for much of the community or for the school.
No one was injured when this house was hit in McRae.
Vilonia lost 16 homes and many other structures.
As I started out, storms are headed our way. It looks like they may go south of us. I have my pillows and quilt ready for the bathtub in case they don't. Now all I have to do is successfully talk Dan into joining me. :)
Sunday, April 03, 2011
Nature or Nurture
That's a topic that's been studied and published by many experts. I remember thinking as a new parent that "nurture" was the main ingredient and would determine how my children would "turn out". I was partly right and obviously more than partly wrong.
One of my kids made it clear within a few weeks of birth that cuddling was not something preferred and by 18 months old it was clear that an ordered world was an absolute necessity! My other child was ok with cuddling but disorder was going to be part of every surrounding.
I now have the benefit of four grandchildren to observe in addition to my own two children and it's clear to me that nature has a huge influence on their personalities, interests, and temperments, but it's the nurture we provide that helps them direct their choices and self control. Each one of them has specific areas where they have to work harder than everyone else and at the same time, each one has areas that naturally come easier.
Parenting is hard work!! I am very proud of my kids and their spouses for the the work they do to raise my grandchildren. It is very challenging work!
Both of my kids were high energy kids and they are high energy adults. I am fascinated by the characteristics of my own children that I can now see in my grandchildren. I look forward to the phases that will come as they grow up.
One of my kids made it clear within a few weeks of birth that cuddling was not something preferred and by 18 months old it was clear that an ordered world was an absolute necessity! My other child was ok with cuddling but disorder was going to be part of every surrounding.
I now have the benefit of four grandchildren to observe in addition to my own two children and it's clear to me that nature has a huge influence on their personalities, interests, and temperments, but it's the nurture we provide that helps them direct their choices and self control. Each one of them has specific areas where they have to work harder than everyone else and at the same time, each one has areas that naturally come easier.
Parenting is hard work!! I am very proud of my kids and their spouses for the the work they do to raise my grandchildren. It is very challenging work!
Both of my kids were high energy kids and they are high energy adults. I am fascinated by the characteristics of my own children that I can now see in my grandchildren. I look forward to the phases that will come as they grow up.
Monday, March 21, 2011
This side of sixty is really sixteen!
I can hardly believe that I will be sixty years old on my next birthday. First of all, it seems like I just turned fifty yesterday, and forty the day before that!!
Lest you doubt, think about the day you got married. Whether it be 5, 10, or 15 years ago, it went by so fast in some ways. Or think about the birth of your child, whether it was 2, 4, or 8 years ago, don't you flash back like it was yesterday?
When I was in my early twenties, I looked at my thirties as the point when my life would have already peaked and I would start going downhill. LOL!! Even now that still causes be to really laugh out loud!!! By the time I reached thirty, I was a young mother to two preschoolers.
When I was about 32, Rachel was four and Michael was two. I was babysitting 2 additional two-year olds as well as 2 three-year olds every weekday. That was DEFINATLY not downhill!!
When I turned 40 my kids were in upper elementary school. When I turned 50 they were close to entering college and I was close to finishing college. Shortly after, I began graduate school. I guess that's why I barely noticed 40 and didn't noticed turning 50 at all.
One things has remained steadfast all these years and it may surprise you. While my body notices my age, my heart and spirit still feels like I am 16 years old. I can clearly remember walking down the street with girl friends the first time I realize that boys noticed us. That was the first year I went to a prom! My first experience at a theme park was that year and I loved it! That was a year of many firsts and many good things for me.
I made a reference to this to another teacher recently and she didn't know what I was talking about. She said she didn't know what age she felt other than the age she is now.
Well I do, I feel sixteen and I'm GLAD!!!
Lest you doubt, think about the day you got married. Whether it be 5, 10, or 15 years ago, it went by so fast in some ways. Or think about the birth of your child, whether it was 2, 4, or 8 years ago, don't you flash back like it was yesterday?
When I was in my early twenties, I looked at my thirties as the point when my life would have already peaked and I would start going downhill. LOL!! Even now that still causes be to really laugh out loud!!! By the time I reached thirty, I was a young mother to two preschoolers.
When I was about 32, Rachel was four and Michael was two. I was babysitting 2 additional two-year olds as well as 2 three-year olds every weekday. That was DEFINATLY not downhill!!
When I turned 40 my kids were in upper elementary school. When I turned 50 they were close to entering college and I was close to finishing college. Shortly after, I began graduate school. I guess that's why I barely noticed 40 and didn't noticed turning 50 at all.
One things has remained steadfast all these years and it may surprise you. While my body notices my age, my heart and spirit still feels like I am 16 years old. I can clearly remember walking down the street with girl friends the first time I realize that boys noticed us. That was the first year I went to a prom! My first experience at a theme park was that year and I loved it! That was a year of many firsts and many good things for me.
I made a reference to this to another teacher recently and she didn't know what I was talking about. She said she didn't know what age she felt other than the age she is now.
Well I do, I feel sixteen and I'm GLAD!!!
Thursday, February 24, 2011
St. Patrick's School
I saw my Aunt Ellen several years ago over Thanksgiving and she asked me if I went to St. Patrick's school. I hadn't seen her for many years. I think it had been 25 years, but in any case, it had been a long time.
I had totally forgotten about it until she asked. I was enrolled in a Catholic school for first grade. I think it was located on the campus of Kent State University. I don't remember very much about school. I think I was a good student.
I do remember how much I hated recess. At recess, I would choose a spot near the building or at the outside edge of the play area. I would stand on that spot, trying not to make eye contact with anyone. I didn't want to get into trouble and I didn't want to make anyone mad at me - not even another first grader.
I had an older cousin or aunt who came up to me at least one time. She was probably high school age. She was kind to me and I think she tried to get me to play with other children. There was NO WAY I would take a risk like that. I wish I could remember who it was. I have been thinking about this since I first wrote this post, and I really think it may have been my Aunt Agnes!
You may wonder, "how hard could it be to figure out?". Well, I have a very large family on my mother's side. Here is a list of my mother's siblings:
Margaret, Robert, Catherine, Anna, Ellen, Josephine, Frank, Hugh, Pat, Dick, Agnes, Judy, Joe (died when I was about 5) and another Agnes (died as an infant- possibly a twin)
I think my mother was between Anna and Ellen. My mother had 6 of us and with all of the aunts and uncles listed above, you can see that I had lots of cousins. My aunt Judy was only a year or so older than me. She lived with us when she was small because my grandmother had died. Judy always seemed more like a cousin than an aunt.
I have so many good memories of growing up with my cousins. I'll write about that another time.
Back to Catholic school - I may have attended part of 2nd grade at St Matthew's Catholic school. I can't remember for sure.
I do remember going to catechism classes and making my first communion. That would have been 2nd grade and catechism classes were held after school (I think that's right)
The only times I remember going to church on Sundays were the weekend's at Grandpa Joe's or the times I walked from my own house. I remember being at church with different aunts, uncles, and cousins but I don't ever remember seeing my mother. This struck me so odd that I asked my sister - she doesn't ever remember seeing our mother at church either. Strange.
I had totally forgotten about it until she asked. I was enrolled in a Catholic school for first grade. I think it was located on the campus of Kent State University. I don't remember very much about school. I think I was a good student.
I do remember how much I hated recess. At recess, I would choose a spot near the building or at the outside edge of the play area. I would stand on that spot, trying not to make eye contact with anyone. I didn't want to get into trouble and I didn't want to make anyone mad at me - not even another first grader.
I had an older cousin or aunt who came up to me at least one time. She was probably high school age. She was kind to me and I think she tried to get me to play with other children. There was NO WAY I would take a risk like that. I wish I could remember who it was. I have been thinking about this since I first wrote this post, and I really think it may have been my Aunt Agnes!
You may wonder, "how hard could it be to figure out?". Well, I have a very large family on my mother's side. Here is a list of my mother's siblings:
Margaret, Robert, Catherine, Anna, Ellen, Josephine, Frank, Hugh, Pat, Dick, Agnes, Judy, Joe (died when I was about 5) and another Agnes (died as an infant- possibly a twin)
I think my mother was between Anna and Ellen. My mother had 6 of us and with all of the aunts and uncles listed above, you can see that I had lots of cousins. My aunt Judy was only a year or so older than me. She lived with us when she was small because my grandmother had died. Judy always seemed more like a cousin than an aunt.
I have so many good memories of growing up with my cousins. I'll write about that another time.
Back to Catholic school - I may have attended part of 2nd grade at St Matthew's Catholic school. I can't remember for sure.
I do remember going to catechism classes and making my first communion. That would have been 2nd grade and catechism classes were held after school (I think that's right)
The only times I remember going to church on Sundays were the weekend's at Grandpa Joe's or the times I walked from my own house. I remember being at church with different aunts, uncles, and cousins but I don't ever remember seeing my mother. This struck me so odd that I asked my sister - she doesn't ever remember seeing our mother at church either. Strange.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Rebound - Part 2
I recently learned about rebound headaches. I had heard of them before but I'd never really understood the process.
I'd been having daily migraine headaches for about two months and had nearly used all of the prescription medication that typically stops my migraines before they hit full force. I discussed this with my neurologist in late January and he emphasized to me that I could not take this medication more than twice a week because it could cause a stroke!!
He then explained that I had been most likely been having rebound migraines which occur when the body becomes accustomed to the prescription treatment and then responds to the diminishing amount of medication in the body by triggering a new migraine.
That particular medication is an "abortive" type and I could not take it for the next two weeks. That meant I had to miss the next two weeks of work to stay in bed and deal with daily headaches. My doctor also started me on a daily "preventative" medicaiton that should reduce the number of migraines I get. I sure hope so.
I have learned my lesson and I will not take the "abortive" medication more than twice a week!
I'd been having daily migraine headaches for about two months and had nearly used all of the prescription medication that typically stops my migraines before they hit full force. I discussed this with my neurologist in late January and he emphasized to me that I could not take this medication more than twice a week because it could cause a stroke!!
He then explained that I had been most likely been having rebound migraines which occur when the body becomes accustomed to the prescription treatment and then responds to the diminishing amount of medication in the body by triggering a new migraine.
That particular medication is an "abortive" type and I could not take it for the next two weeks. That meant I had to miss the next two weeks of work to stay in bed and deal with daily headaches. My doctor also started me on a daily "preventative" medicaiton that should reduce the number of migraines I get. I sure hope so.
I have learned my lesson and I will not take the "abortive" medication more than twice a week!
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Rebound - Part 1
I started this as one post but decided that it should actually be two separate ones.
I grew up loving Buckeye football and basketball. When I left Ohio for college, I lost interest in Ohio sports. I went to all of the Harding basketball games while I was there. Then came marriage, moving back to Arkansas, and children. All sports became a faint memory.
Dan remained a steadfast Buckeye football and basketball fan. As I recall, the Hogs and Buckeyes never played each other so he also became a Hog basketball fan and I vicariously became a Hog fan! I really didn't have time to watch games (or maybe I didn't want to - I'm still not sure) One year the Hogs were in the final four and I did watch them and cheer them on with everyone else.
Several years ago, I started watching Buckeye football with Dan and found that I really enjoy it. Gradually, I learned the names of the players and their positions. Some of them left and new ones replaced them.
Sugar Bowl - Yes, this year the Buckeyes and Hogs both went to the Sugar Bowl! All of my friends cheered for the Hogs but I'm a Buckeye at heart!!
Now this is where "rebound" comes in. This year I started watching Buckeye basketball with Dan. I was surprised as basketball terms and rules flooded into my memory. It felt so cool to be able to understand a game I had never played!!
Ohio State is currently undefeated and the announcers are already talking "final four"
I sure hope so!!
Next post "Rebound Part 2"
I grew up loving Buckeye football and basketball. When I left Ohio for college, I lost interest in Ohio sports. I went to all of the Harding basketball games while I was there. Then came marriage, moving back to Arkansas, and children. All sports became a faint memory.
Dan remained a steadfast Buckeye football and basketball fan. As I recall, the Hogs and Buckeyes never played each other so he also became a Hog basketball fan and I vicariously became a Hog fan! I really didn't have time to watch games (or maybe I didn't want to - I'm still not sure) One year the Hogs were in the final four and I did watch them and cheer them on with everyone else.
Several years ago, I started watching Buckeye football with Dan and found that I really enjoy it. Gradually, I learned the names of the players and their positions. Some of them left and new ones replaced them.
Sugar Bowl - Yes, this year the Buckeyes and Hogs both went to the Sugar Bowl! All of my friends cheered for the Hogs but I'm a Buckeye at heart!!
Now this is where "rebound" comes in. This year I started watching Buckeye basketball with Dan. I was surprised as basketball terms and rules flooded into my memory. It felt so cool to be able to understand a game I had never played!!
Ohio State is currently undefeated and the announcers are already talking "final four"
I sure hope so!!
Next post "Rebound Part 2"
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Christmas 2010
We had a very busy and enjoyable holiday this year. I don't keep track of details very well but as I recall, we spent 4-5 days in Birmingham with Rachel and her family and then after we got back to Searcy, Michael and his family came and stayed with us for 4-5 days.
Christmas Part 1
We arrived in Birmingham on Thursday afternoon and checked into our hotel right away. Dan had mentioned earlier in the month that the hotel would be great outlet for the kids to be able to go swimming often and he turned out to be exactly right. Marcus and Rachel brought the boys to swim in our hotel pool every day (or nearly). Like I said, I'm not good with those kinds of details.
Impressions are my forte and I can say that these two boys swim like fish!! They often spent several hours in the pool and never seemed to tire of it. Caleb swims from the end to end of the pool and all around the middle. Ethan wears a type of float device that goes around his middle and still requires that he move his arms and legs to keep afloat. He's got it down to a science - he's figured out how to hold his arms still and parallel to his body while staying afloat by kicking his legs furiously. I loved watching them both swim.
Ethan derived immense pleasure from aiming his water shooter at Papa! If you look closely, you can see the water stream land right between Papa's eyes. Good aim for a two-year old! Papa joined in the fun by splashing back almost simultaneously. As always, I love being with the boys and have many fond memories.
Christmas Part 2
Michael and Jennifer arrived at our house on Tuesday afternoon. It was quite a thrill to see Jasper walking! He's been walking for a while, but this was the first time for us to see it. Jasper usually has a big smile on his face! We were plagued with rain every single day that they were here which it made hard on the kids (and the parents) We all went to Harding to allow the boys a larger space to run around.
I loved watching Bennett really get into the spirit of handing out the presents for all of us to open. He seemed as eager to hand Jasper a gift as he was to open one for himself. We had a great visit! I enjoyed being with the boys and look forward to our next visit.
Christmas Part 1
We arrived in Birmingham on Thursday afternoon and checked into our hotel right away. Dan had mentioned earlier in the month that the hotel would be great outlet for the kids to be able to go swimming often and he turned out to be exactly right. Marcus and Rachel brought the boys to swim in our hotel pool every day (or nearly). Like I said, I'm not good with those kinds of details.
Impressions are my forte and I can say that these two boys swim like fish!! They often spent several hours in the pool and never seemed to tire of it. Caleb swims from the end to end of the pool and all around the middle. Ethan wears a type of float device that goes around his middle and still requires that he move his arms and legs to keep afloat. He's got it down to a science - he's figured out how to hold his arms still and parallel to his body while staying afloat by kicking his legs furiously. I loved watching them both swim.
Ethan derived immense pleasure from aiming his water shooter at Papa! If you look closely, you can see the water stream land right between Papa's eyes. Good aim for a two-year old! Papa joined in the fun by splashing back almost simultaneously. As always, I love being with the boys and have many fond memories.
Christmas Part 2
Michael and Jennifer arrived at our house on Tuesday afternoon. It was quite a thrill to see Jasper walking! He's been walking for a while, but this was the first time for us to see it. Jasper usually has a big smile on his face! We were plagued with rain every single day that they were here which it made hard on the kids (and the parents) We all went to Harding to allow the boys a larger space to run around.
I loved watching Bennett really get into the spirit of handing out the presents for all of us to open. He seemed as eager to hand Jasper a gift as he was to open one for himself. We had a great visit! I enjoyed being with the boys and look forward to our next visit.
Friday, December 17, 2010
PIZZA!
Until this evening, I have not experienced the enjoyment of eating pizza for several years. I had resigned myself to a "pizza-less" diet untill recently when my daughter and her family were here visiting.
Pizza has been one of my favorite foods most of my life and I have sorely missed it! Rachel happened to mention that I didn't have to deprive myself altogether of pizza, I just had to revise the recipe. WHAT? I can eat pizza? That was a revelation to me and she went on to describe the ingredients that I could use to make a pizza that wouldn't wreak havoc with my digestive system.
In case you are wondering, these are the ingredients that I can not have:
Anyway, my daughter suggested that I make a pizza using the crust, a pesto sauce, and cheese. BRILLIANT, I thought!
I decided that I would add a lean ground beef and presto, I had the makings of a pizza. I made it this evening and it was DELICIOUS!
Thank you Rachel!!
Pizza has been one of my favorite foods most of my life and I have sorely missed it! Rachel happened to mention that I didn't have to deprive myself altogether of pizza, I just had to revise the recipe. WHAT? I can eat pizza? That was a revelation to me and she went on to describe the ingredients that I could use to make a pizza that wouldn't wreak havoc with my digestive system.
In case you are wondering, these are the ingredients that I can not have:
- tomato sauce
- vegetables (none at all)
- peperoni
- sausage
Anyway, my daughter suggested that I make a pizza using the crust, a pesto sauce, and cheese. BRILLIANT, I thought!
I decided that I would add a lean ground beef and presto, I had the makings of a pizza. I made it this evening and it was DELICIOUS!
Thank you Rachel!!
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Playroom
We have reorganized our playroom for the grand kids and I really like it. The first thing we did was replace the back door that goes to the yard. Then I got rid of the giant tub that held all the waffle blocks as well as miscellaneous other toys. Actually, I moved it out of the playroom and reused it for all of our extra blankets. We also replaced the curtains, which was LONG overdue.
Next, I collected all of our identical containers and bought a few more to better utilize the space. I separated the different types of toys and labeled each container with a color photo showing the contents of that container. In theory, that makes it easy for everyone to put toys away when they're done and more convenient to carry the toys to whichever room they want to play in.
We decided to supplement our playroom with Duplos (legos) and bought 4 tubs of them. Then I found these cool dinosaurs from Animal Planet and I added those to our supply.
I bought an inexpensive two shelf stand to hold our books and make them more accessible. I had to buy more books to fill the shelf!! NOT! Actually, there were several books I wanted to add and as I was looking for them, I found even more.
Last, but not least, we are having a deck built so that the kids can easily go out and play in the back yard. The deck is not large but it's very sturdy and I love it! Also, the mosquitoes are no longer a problem.
There are more containers on the other side of the room and this photo was taken before I put the visual labels on the containers.
I am pleased that the toys are more organized and I'm really looking forward to playing legos with the kids.
Next, I collected all of our identical containers and bought a few more to better utilize the space. I separated the different types of toys and labeled each container with a color photo showing the contents of that container. In theory, that makes it easy for everyone to put toys away when they're done and more convenient to carry the toys to whichever room they want to play in.
We decided to supplement our playroom with Duplos (legos) and bought 4 tubs of them. Then I found these cool dinosaurs from Animal Planet and I added those to our supply.
I bought an inexpensive two shelf stand to hold our books and make them more accessible. I had to buy more books to fill the shelf!! NOT! Actually, there were several books I wanted to add and as I was looking for them, I found even more.
Last, but not least, we are having a deck built so that the kids can easily go out and play in the back yard. The deck is not large but it's very sturdy and I love it! Also, the mosquitoes are no longer a problem.
There are more containers on the other side of the room and this photo was taken before I put the visual labels on the containers.
I am pleased that the toys are more organized and I'm really looking forward to playing legos with the kids.
Monday, December 13, 2010
Thanksgiving Visit
Caleb and Ethan paid us a visit over Thanksgiving, along with their parents. I love that they are old enough to remember us from visit to visit. They arrived pretty late in the evening and Caleb's first comment went something like, "We drove all night to get here". Then Ethan chimed in with, "Yeah, we drove a long, long time". They were so cute and seemed excited to be here.
I notice changes in them every time I see them. For instance, Ethan used to be the big eater, but now Caleb eats more than Ethan. Both of the boys enjoyed readings books. One of their favorites (and mine) was "Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day!" I read it over and over and then they even asked Papa to read it. Rachel took a photo of Papa reading to them.
The boys spent a lot of time at the nearby school with Marcus, Rachel, Papa, and even twice with Nanna. I am still amazed at how well Caleb can ride his bike and how Marcus taught him.
I always thought that you teach a child to ride by running along side them, holding on the bike and letting go when they are going fast enough. Not so with Caleb. I wasn't there the first day Caleb rode but the way it was described to me was that Marcus explained how to do it and then Caleb just did it.
I got a real kick out of Ethan's expressions when Papa said, "How ya doing, partner?" Ethan looked at him in the strangest way and told Papa, "I not partner, I Ethan".
Ethan LOVES to meet people! One afternoon he went from person to person in the living room, saying, "Nice to meet you," as he shook each one of our hands. He made the rounds at least 5 times before he went on to play. It was even more adorable when he stuck out his hand at church to anyone who was willing.
Another of my favorites from the weekend was watching Caleb and Ethan on the computer. Caleb had his turn and then when it was Ethan's turn, Caleb helped Ethan by moving the mouse where ever Ethan pointed on the screen. Whether it was a letter or a number, Caleb patiently allowed Ethan to choose and then moved the curser and clicked for Ethan. Talk about teamwork!!
Caleb will starting kindergarten next year and the one thing that he seems to be most proud of is that when he goes to school, "he will learn so much he will be smarter than mom".
One of the funniest moments to me was when Caleb had created a shooter (gun) out of tinker toys and he ran into the living room, ran straight to his dad, and took aim. Ethan instantly shouted, DON'T SHOOT HIM!".
Caleb didn't miss a beat, he handed the shooter to Ethan, saying, "here, you shoot him". Ethan was so enthused by the offer that he totally forgot that he didn't want Caleb to shoot daddy, and BANG, Ethan did it himself. I laughed and laughed!
This weekend was my first experience shopping on "Black Friday". Rachel and I went shopping for baby girl clothes at Penny's. We bought lots of outfits at a great price and I LOVED IT! We had so much fun!
I notice changes in them every time I see them. For instance, Ethan used to be the big eater, but now Caleb eats more than Ethan. Both of the boys enjoyed readings books. One of their favorites (and mine) was "Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day!" I read it over and over and then they even asked Papa to read it. Rachel took a photo of Papa reading to them.
The boys spent a lot of time at the nearby school with Marcus, Rachel, Papa, and even twice with Nanna. I am still amazed at how well Caleb can ride his bike and how Marcus taught him.
I always thought that you teach a child to ride by running along side them, holding on the bike and letting go when they are going fast enough. Not so with Caleb. I wasn't there the first day Caleb rode but the way it was described to me was that Marcus explained how to do it and then Caleb just did it.
I got a real kick out of Ethan's expressions when Papa said, "How ya doing, partner?" Ethan looked at him in the strangest way and told Papa, "I not partner, I Ethan".
Ethan LOVES to meet people! One afternoon he went from person to person in the living room, saying, "Nice to meet you," as he shook each one of our hands. He made the rounds at least 5 times before he went on to play. It was even more adorable when he stuck out his hand at church to anyone who was willing.
Another of my favorites from the weekend was watching Caleb and Ethan on the computer. Caleb had his turn and then when it was Ethan's turn, Caleb helped Ethan by moving the mouse where ever Ethan pointed on the screen. Whether it was a letter or a number, Caleb patiently allowed Ethan to choose and then moved the curser and clicked for Ethan. Talk about teamwork!!
Caleb will starting kindergarten next year and the one thing that he seems to be most proud of is that when he goes to school, "he will learn so much he will be smarter than mom".
One of the funniest moments to me was when Caleb had created a shooter (gun) out of tinker toys and he ran into the living room, ran straight to his dad, and took aim. Ethan instantly shouted, DON'T SHOOT HIM!".
Caleb didn't miss a beat, he handed the shooter to Ethan, saying, "here, you shoot him". Ethan was so enthused by the offer that he totally forgot that he didn't want Caleb to shoot daddy, and BANG, Ethan did it himself. I laughed and laughed!
This weekend was my first experience shopping on "Black Friday". Rachel and I went shopping for baby girl clothes at Penny's. We bought lots of outfits at a great price and I LOVED IT! We had so much fun!
Thursday, December 02, 2010
Bowling
I went bowling for the first time in 20 years! (to the best of my recollection)
I've been thinking about it for about 2 months so on my way home from work, I pulled in to the SUPER BOWL.
Both Searcy Schools and Riverview Schools were there competing with one another. I just recently learned that local high schools have bowling teams.
Two of the lanes were still available so I carefully picked a rather light ball and got my shoes.
The last time I went bowling, the scores were handwritten on a large paper formatted specifically for bowling. Today, the scoring was all digital, which is not too surprising.
I was only going to bowl one game but after I got two spares, I decided to bowl a second game. Then I got 3 spares and 1 strike. I was really pumped!
I left after that game, mentally making plans for my next time. I think I'm going to like this. It's a fairly inexpensive hobby with one game costing $3.00. Tthe price went down with each subsequent game.
NOTE* My next post will be about Caleb and Ethan's visit!
I've been thinking about it for about 2 months so on my way home from work, I pulled in to the SUPER BOWL.
Both Searcy Schools and Riverview Schools were there competing with one another. I just recently learned that local high schools have bowling teams.
Two of the lanes were still available so I carefully picked a rather light ball and got my shoes.
The last time I went bowling, the scores were handwritten on a large paper formatted specifically for bowling. Today, the scoring was all digital, which is not too surprising.
I was only going to bowl one game but after I got two spares, I decided to bowl a second game. Then I got 3 spares and 1 strike. I was really pumped!
I left after that game, mentally making plans for my next time. I think I'm going to like this. It's a fairly inexpensive hobby with one game costing $3.00. Tthe price went down with each subsequent game.
NOTE* My next post will be about Caleb and Ethan's visit!
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Michael Allen Herwick
Michael is my older brother. I was eleven months old when he was born. As long as I can remember, I have been the older sister. I've only seen him once in 25 years. He has been developmentally disabled since he was about two years old.
I was fiercely protective of him as I was growing up and woe to the person who made fun of Michael or anyone else that had a disability. He attended the same high school as I did but he had a "special" classroom and teacher. He was also enrolled in several general classes with me. Health class is the only one I can remember right now. We graduated the same year and I was so proud that was able to walk with the rest of our graduating class of about 900 students.
I have been able to keep up with him somewhat through extended family who were able to spend time with him over the years. He has had his struggles, but he has accomplished more than I had hoped for him. He began working as a custodian in a local school district the year we graduated. He worked for 30 years and then retired with a good income. I am so proud of him and can't wait to see him again.
I had a conversation with one of my sisters a few years ago. I maintain that he looks very much like one of the stars of "Criminal Minds". She doesn't really see the resemblance.
I was fiercely protective of him as I was growing up and woe to the person who made fun of Michael or anyone else that had a disability. He attended the same high school as I did but he had a "special" classroom and teacher. He was also enrolled in several general classes with me. Health class is the only one I can remember right now. We graduated the same year and I was so proud that was able to walk with the rest of our graduating class of about 900 students.
I have been able to keep up with him somewhat through extended family who were able to spend time with him over the years. He has had his struggles, but he has accomplished more than I had hoped for him. He began working as a custodian in a local school district the year we graduated. He worked for 30 years and then retired with a good income. I am so proud of him and can't wait to see him again.
I had a conversation with one of my sisters a few years ago. I maintain that he looks very much like one of the stars of "Criminal Minds". She doesn't really see the resemblance.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Holiday Plans
We'll spend Thanksgiving this year with Rachel and her family. They are coming here and as always, I am eager to see the boys. I love watching them interact with each other. I am very thankful to be able to keep up with their growth and changes through Rachel's blog.
I think the boys have a pretty awesome understanding of grace. They are eager to forgive each other and give unlimited 2nd chances. Rachel is doing a good job. I didn't think of teaching my two toddlers about grace as much as I taught them about forgiveness. Parents can certainly learn from their adult children as much as adult children can learn from their parents.
Back to the blog: I smile, chuckle, and even laugh out loud at their antics. Sometimes I read it aloud to Dan so he can chuckle along with me. I guess many guys aren't into reading blogs as a rule.
Dan and I will drive to Birmingham for Christmas and I'm really excited about the plans Rachel has made for the boys' Christmas. We bought them bunk beds, which they really wanted. Here is Rachel's plan:
To preserve the surprise, the bunk beds will stay hidden and the boys will "camp out" in their sleeping bags until Christmas. On Christmas Eve, we'll move the kids out of their bedrooms after they fall asleep and then set everything up. Maybe we'll even do a scavenger hunt in the morning (like Mimi always does with their stockings) that ends with them discovering their remodeled room.
Dan and I are staying in a nearby hotel but I have already made sure that we can arrive at their house as early as needed to see them find the bunk beds.
After we get back to Searcy, Michael and his family will join us. I am so very excited to see Bennett and Jasper again. JASPER IS WALKING!! I can't wait to see him walking! They were just here to visit so the boys, especially Jasper, will already be familiar with us.
If you read Jennifer's blog, you already know what a blessing it is that Jasper is walking. He has a reduced muscle tone so he has to work harder than other children his age to be able to walk. Even so, HE'S WALKING. I am so happy for him and his parents (and grandparents)
I'll update after all the wonderful visits we have planned.
I think the boys have a pretty awesome understanding of grace. They are eager to forgive each other and give unlimited 2nd chances. Rachel is doing a good job. I didn't think of teaching my two toddlers about grace as much as I taught them about forgiveness. Parents can certainly learn from their adult children as much as adult children can learn from their parents.
Back to the blog: I smile, chuckle, and even laugh out loud at their antics. Sometimes I read it aloud to Dan so he can chuckle along with me. I guess many guys aren't into reading blogs as a rule.
Dan and I will drive to Birmingham for Christmas and I'm really excited about the plans Rachel has made for the boys' Christmas. We bought them bunk beds, which they really wanted. Here is Rachel's plan:
To preserve the surprise, the bunk beds will stay hidden and the boys will "camp out" in their sleeping bags until Christmas. On Christmas Eve, we'll move the kids out of their bedrooms after they fall asleep and then set everything up. Maybe we'll even do a scavenger hunt in the morning (like Mimi always does with their stockings) that ends with them discovering their remodeled room.
Dan and I are staying in a nearby hotel but I have already made sure that we can arrive at their house as early as needed to see them find the bunk beds.
After we get back to Searcy, Michael and his family will join us. I am so very excited to see Bennett and Jasper again. JASPER IS WALKING!! I can't wait to see him walking! They were just here to visit so the boys, especially Jasper, will already be familiar with us.
If you read Jennifer's blog, you already know what a blessing it is that Jasper is walking. He has a reduced muscle tone so he has to work harder than other children his age to be able to walk. Even so, HE'S WALKING. I am so happy for him and his parents (and grandparents)
I'll update after all the wonderful visits we have planned.
Saturday, November 13, 2010
A Good Night's Sleep
I visited my doctor yesterday for my annual flu shot. It didn't hurt at all and even now, my arm is barely sore. While I was there I mentioned my sleep difficulties and he gave me a mild medication which enabled me to happily say:
I SLEPT GREAT LAST NIGHT!!!
I think I can say good-by to 12 hour bouts of restless sleep that left me exausted from the time I woke up until I fell back into bed as early as 7 PM many recent nights!
I feel renewed. The sun is shining and the world looks a bit brighter to me. I suspect I would feel the same way even if it were a cloudy, rainy day.
I SLEPT GREAT LAST NIGHT!!!
I think I can say good-by to 12 hour bouts of restless sleep that left me exausted from the time I woke up until I fell back into bed as early as 7 PM many recent nights!
I feel renewed. The sun is shining and the world looks a bit brighter to me. I suspect I would feel the same way even if it were a cloudy, rainy day.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Teachers
Teachers have such demanding jobs. I came across the following and it is pretty accurate as far as what is expected of teachers:
After being interviewed by the school administration, the teacher said:
“Let me see if I've got this right.
You want me to go into that room with all those kids, correct their disruptive behavior, observe them for signs of abuse, monitor their dress habits, censor their T-shirt messages, and instill in them a love for learning.
You want me to check their backpacks for weapons, wage war on drugs and sexually transmitted diseases, and raise their sense of self esteem and personal pride.
You want me to teach them patriotism and good citizenship, sportsmanship and fair play, and how to register to vote, balance a checkbook, and apply for a job.
You want me to check their heads for lice, recognize signs of antisocial behavior, and make sure that they all pass the final exams.
You also want me to provide them with an equal education regardless of their handicaps, and communicate regularly with their parents in English, Spanish or any other language, by letter, telephone, newsletter, and report card.
You want me to do all this and then you tell me. . . I CAN'T PRAY?”
After being interviewed by the school administration, the teacher said:
“Let me see if I've got this right.
You want me to go into that room with all those kids, correct their disruptive behavior, observe them for signs of abuse, monitor their dress habits, censor their T-shirt messages, and instill in them a love for learning.
You want me to check their backpacks for weapons, wage war on drugs and sexually transmitted diseases, and raise their sense of self esteem and personal pride.
You want me to teach them patriotism and good citizenship, sportsmanship and fair play, and how to register to vote, balance a checkbook, and apply for a job.
You want me to check their heads for lice, recognize signs of antisocial behavior, and make sure that they all pass the final exams.
You also want me to provide them with an equal education regardless of their handicaps, and communicate regularly with their parents in English, Spanish or any other language, by letter, telephone, newsletter, and report card.
You want me to do all this and then you tell me. . . I CAN'T PRAY?”
Sunday, November 07, 2010
Parents
We had our sheparding group today and for the most part, I really enjoyed it.
Several of our group asked for prayers for their mothers who were facing illness.
I found myself wanting to cry.
I held it in - until I left and then I cried in my car. I cried and cried and cried.
I have only seen my own mother once in the last 25 years.
After growing up having been molested by her and physically tortured by her, I chose to remove myself from her life when she molested several of her grandchildren that lived nearby her.
I didn't want my own children to be hurt by her.
I have gone through many stages of anger, hate, and then forgiveness toward her. I now find myself praying for her soul - praying that she will turn to the Lord before she dies.
I have been having nightmares about her several times every week. This has been going on for 3-4 months. This has been very difficult for me. It makes the entire day a bit rough for me.
If you read this, please pray for me and for my mother.
As a mother myself, I have striven to be the best mother I can be and yet I have failed in so many ways. I am thankful that my own children are better parents than I was. We all have a responsibility to do the best we can and I am so proud of both of my children because they are wonderful parents to their own children.
I thank God for my children and for my grandchildren.
Several of our group asked for prayers for their mothers who were facing illness.
I found myself wanting to cry.
I held it in - until I left and then I cried in my car. I cried and cried and cried.
I have only seen my own mother once in the last 25 years.
After growing up having been molested by her and physically tortured by her, I chose to remove myself from her life when she molested several of her grandchildren that lived nearby her.
I didn't want my own children to be hurt by her.
I have gone through many stages of anger, hate, and then forgiveness toward her. I now find myself praying for her soul - praying that she will turn to the Lord before she dies.
I have been having nightmares about her several times every week. This has been going on for 3-4 months. This has been very difficult for me. It makes the entire day a bit rough for me.
If you read this, please pray for me and for my mother.
As a mother myself, I have striven to be the best mother I can be and yet I have failed in so many ways. I am thankful that my own children are better parents than I was. We all have a responsibility to do the best we can and I am so proud of both of my children because they are wonderful parents to their own children.
I thank God for my children and for my grandchildren.
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